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Rugi 🌹's avatar

Truly I feel this sort of feminity is a performance for other women

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Winifred Liam's avatar

It is, almost like a signaling of being better.

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ememm's avatar

You've really said it all and it's sad my agemates who aren't even up to twenty already have this idea. We really need help as a society 😔

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Winifred Liam's avatar

We’re sadly deteriorating fast and it’s scary. Young boys into fraud because of expectations upon them, young girls wanting to be provided for yet pouring money into thieving women’s pockets.

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Sam Babajide.'s avatar

This letter holds some powerful truths. I think many women out there needs to see this letter so that they can be saved.

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Winifred Liam's avatar

Thank you Sam 🤲🏾🎀

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MOYOSOREOLUWA PETER-AYEYE's avatar

Such craftsmanship. Trauma everywhere, survive childhood trauma and you are introduced to the adulthood wahala and trust me this one is insane. We need detoxification fast

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Winifred Liam's avatar

Likeee adulthood walaha is just the proper name for it. We dooo and we need to filter what we hear.

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By_Ishat's avatar

If I wrote this, I wouldn’t even have worded this as perfect as this! Thanks for sharing 🫶🫶

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Winifred Liam's avatar

Welcome 💕

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Febechukwu's avatar

Thank you for writing

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Winifred Liam's avatar

💕🙏🏽

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Inioluwa.so's avatar

Nahhh, This is o realllll, so trueeee!

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